Writing for 10/27

Date : 10/27

Time starting : 9.05 p.m

Idea I am pursuing : The magic of talking

Time ending :  9.20 p.m

I believe all of us have been through that one time where we are feeling really down with the gloomiest expression we ever made are painted upon our faces. Speaking from a personal perspective, I had been through this sort of miserable experiences countless times and the best way I found to cope with it is by talking it out with my friends or my family. For some reason, it just lighten the whole pressure even though they might not provide me with the best solution for all the troubles that I went through. I know there is a saying that goes as follow : "Don't tell your problems to other people. 20% are glad that you have them while the other 80% do not care". I know how well we, as an individual can not be bothered to hear or meddle with other people problems but simply lending our ears just to hear them out is simply more than enough to ease the whole burden.

I believe this magic is due to how humans find comfort in other people. I, for instance does not know how someone can live in solitude simply saying because they prefer to be alone. Maybe some people are born that way where they feel comfortable living only around themselves but I am not among those kind of individuals. I need to talk to someone, anyone on a daily basis. It can be about anything ranging from "how's life?" to the more friendly "bickering" and chitchats. It is simply fun to do so because there will be new stories to tell and hear everyday which I never get bored of. That is why the term "dying from loneliness" is a possibility from my perspective even though it is nothing more than a literal term.

Perhaps it is because I am weak in will and spirit. They often say only weak people need to trouble other with their worries and problems. In my opinion, sharing our problems with other is a natural thing to do. Well, "sharing" might not exactly be the term. Maybe, "telling"?. If we can tell something that make us smile to other people, then why not do the same for thing that makes us down?. It is fine if they make it really obvious that they could not care less about your worries as long as you did not keep it to yourself. There might be some stuff that is too personal to share with your friends. In that case, try family instead. The bottom line is, the more troubles you keep to yourself, the harder you will feel to cope with it.